Question Posted Wednesday February 23 2005, 5:30 pm
Hi, i am new to this place but i do have a question. My girlfriend wants to be friends cause she does't have the time in her schedule. She doesn't call it breaking up. And i feel like huh? When did she first feel like this. And now i am doing my best to get her out of my head but i still like her very much but i don't want to talk to her about it cause shes tired of hearing it. So for now i have been staying away from her. Ever since then i have been in a depressed phase and i am cranky as hell, but i do not think she cares enough about me as i do her, cause it seems her life and career are more important than i am to her. Can you tell me what i should do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? shortiebebe021 answered Friday February 25 2005, 7:42 pm: well she's probably really busy these days and she wants to be friends, not because she thinks her work is more important than you..but maybe because she wouldn't have time to hang out with you anymore. and what kind of girlfriend would that be? she might have to miss out on all the cool stuff you'd like to do because she's so busy, so she's trying not to have you suffer through that. but i know that you're upset and all, but it's not like she hates you or anything. she didn't even truly call it breaking up. but you can still hope that when her schedule isn't too hectic, she'll go out with you again=). for now, don't try to interfere with her. but also don't try to avoid her, because then she'll think you hate her or something. good luck! [ shortiebebe021's advice column | Ask shortiebebe021 A Question ]
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