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I'm so Confused
(me - 15 female and my ex 16 -male) Well I was going out with this guy for almost 2 months and I know that doesn't sound like a long time, but I really loved him and cared about him and he broke up with me but had this girl in his class to tell me well he didnt really get her to tell me but she told me anyways because she didnt want him to keep drawing it out on me. This really hurt me that he couldnt come up to me and tell me his self because we always talked about things pretty openly. Well the reason he broke up with me was because he didnt like me going to parties with one of my ex b-fs that's like my brother now and every time I had went to a party I had enough courage to call him and tell him I went and asked him if he was mad and he would always say no.. I mean If I was gonna cheat on him it wouldnt be very smart for me to cheat at them parties because his friends were there anyways I mean I would never cheat but still. and he always said he still had feelings for his old g/f! I mean this really hurt me. but then his ex invites him to the movies the day after we broke uup and she was supposed to be one of my good friends and I just dont think that its right for friend to do that too you I mean I was crushed when he broke up with me, I went up to him and tried to talk to him and he told me he didnt care, I was so tore up at school I went home early and it was all a big mess and me and his ex got into it over that because I thought it was bull shit but she didnt think she had did anything wrong. I mean me and her are friends again but I just cant forget what she did to me just like that I dont think we'll ever be as close as we were. I just dont know what to do because I love him so much and I just cant drop him and forget about him! I even went to one of his friend's houses for a lil get together thing of some of our friends, (we had to same group of friends) and I'm not gonna lie I caught myself staring at him and I just cant get him off my mind and it hurts even more to know that I have expressed myself to him and he cant even talk to me at all and when I see him and his ex together at school that just kills me too! I love him so much and he acted like he cared so much for me but I guess I was mistaken!
I just dont know what to do! I'm sorry for writing such a long thing, but I hope you can still help!
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lol wow that was really longg.. but i know what you mean =(. i'm sorry he broke up w/ you and that you're so devastated. but it could be that he doesn't show the same feelings toward you that you show towards him. i know i may be talking on the negative side, but you only dated for 2 months, and while he might have been your dream guy, you weren't his dream girl. i know it might really hurt for you since you love him so much, but he doesn't like you as much as you do. but on the other hand, he is pretty harsh doing all taht stuff and then like hanging out with his ex the next day. and then your ex is your friend and all, and you feel all betrayed. i think that both of them don't really realize how much you care and love your ex-bf, because you obviously love him a lot. and that makes it really emotional and depressing for you to see your ex and your friend going together.
but you have to get taht you've only dated for 2 months and you're already this emotional. you're going to date guys (or already probably have) for like 2 years or more, and they might break up with you. and 2 years is a hell lot more time than 2 months. how are you going to handle it then if you're only handling a 2-month relationship with someone? it's normal to feel really hurt and all, and cryings def. ok, but it doesn't help all the time. and there's not really anything you can do, you can't all of a sudden just make him love you again. i'm sorry =( all i have is for you to try to control your emotions or w/e and maybe try looking for a new love. i know that's going to be really hard after losing him but don't worry, it'll be worth it. good luck! =)
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