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hey.. okay just to let you know i like your colum thing.. i think you give good advice.. but anyway.. i have been going out with my boyfriend for about a month.. and one of my friends keeps on saying that everyone thinks we should break up, that we look bad together, and that i just said yes to him when he asked me out because i just wanted a boyfriend.. and i really do love him.. like really.. and it just really annoys me that like people think that.. and i also don't know if people really do think that.. i have a feeling that she likes him and she just wants me to break up with him... ughh this sucks soo much.. okay im sorry thanks sammy!! ilu
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First of all, thank you and no need to be sorry.
Okay, now for advice time! *Warm-up stretches* Okay.. seriously.. I'm good now.
Now, if you are happy with your boyfriend.. everyone shouldn't matter at all. I realize that this is your friend's opinion and that affects your way of thinking, but ignore it. You are affectionate towards your boyfriend (try not to throw around the word love) and he is affectionate towards you and your friend is in the way.
So, tell her this: "_____ and I are happy. Why do you and some others keep convincing me to break up with him? When this is said to me, it, it really upsets me. And then I'm no longer happy. I wish that everyone could be supportive of this boy that I really care about. Do you know the reasoning of why people are being so ignorant to my feelings and what makes me happy?" Try not to use the word "you" alot. As you can see, what I told you to tell your friend didn't use the word "you" more than once. It makes the person feel less targeted... clearing up any opertunities for a cat-fight.
Hope I helped.. fill me in on what happens!
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