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I don't like myself, every tiny detail about myself. I hate my appearance... My hair, my face, my teeth, my hands, my eyebrows, chest, stomach, back, arms, etc... I hate every characteristic of my personality, every last one. What should I do?
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Bullspit. everyone has likeably characteristics, ganted, some moreso, and moreover then others, but everyone, no matter how sometimes you'd like to belive that they dont...has something extrodinarily good about them. You obviously have a low selfesteem, and don't seem to have too good of personal reguard for yourself, nownow, we're not talking "Extreme mackover here" we're talking, "wake up you big stupid." Sometimes, you can't see in yourself what other people see in you, you don't see the magnificant shining pearl white swan that others see, you only see the nasty old ugly duckling...sorry for relating it to disney movies...but...Everyone seems to go through a self-hating time period at least once in their life. I had a huge down time in my life, and still sometimes don't exactly think highly of myself, but then, sometimes...I just realize a few things...
1. I do have friends, and they wouldn't stick around if i was this horrible godaweful person...and i mean..it's not like they're my friends for my looks, or for money or anything..so, i can't be too too bad of a guy.
2. I have a family that loves me and will be there for me through thick and thin, even if I am a bit of a butthole..
3. I'd like to think of myself as a good person, I'm caring, I'm there for people (most of the time, granted they're not being stupid) and sometimes..people might need me
4. it's all about effort, as long as I'm still trying, and I'm still going at it, I'm better then all of those who have quit, or died trying to be where I am.
5. I do have a use in life, I'm here for a reason, I was borne to do things.
those are only a few...but most of what you outlined happened to be physical characteristics, and then you summed up hating your personality in just one big group, I don't nkow about you, but that shows that you are less favorable of your physical appearance then your overall personality due to its representation in the question you posted...maybe, and quite possibly I'm over analyzing your stated question, but hey, what the heck..I'm allowed.
Personality.
This is where I attack your question because I know who you are. Just hush. Seriously, there is no way in hell you can hate every fiber of your being and be existing. Don't you feel that those around you, such as myself, have to like, and want to be around you for a reason, or are you to the point where you trhink they're all insane wacko-losers because of it? That many people can't be wrong. When it comes to physical appearance, things can go many ways, and mean many things. Most people, I'd probably say about 80% (but that's just a guess) do not like some trait about their body. Personally, I think I'm a skinny weird looking lump of genes, and that I'm not all that great looking, I mean, looking at me won't scare people away or kill small animals or anything, but I'm just not "hott" or anything. I'm "alright" you know, kinda a next door neighbor that you can tolerate looking at for short periods of time to get the paper in the morning type stuff. lol. when it comes down to it, you're gorgeous. Especially on the inside. And no one, no one should ever make you feel that you are not a unique wonderfully diverse awesome person, because if they do, intentionally, then they are the scum of the earth.
hope that was somewhat close to something somewhat close to something relative to something you where expecting, somewhat.
_Stephen, by the way, we can all learn from me, because I am crazy, and sometimes crazy bums in the D.C. Metro make sense. (N.Y. subway as well..don't mean to leave my newspaper homies down in the projects out!! REPREP!)
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