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hey! well see, theres like alot going on in my life right now. like two of my friends started drinking, and we are only in 7th grade. i dont understand why though and they wont tell me. and then, like another one of my friends like wont stop talking about this guy that she likes that she already went out with but wants to go out with again. but. he doesnt like her and said that he never would again because he regrets even going out with her in the first place. im too scared to tell her that he said that because she will get so mad at me. she gets mad at me when i just tell her that she needs to stop obsessing over him because its not healthy. she just wont listen. and then my best friend, its a guy, and hes having like a really hard time with his girlfriend. since hes my best friend, he tells me everything and like what she does to him like is really mean. i know it doesnt really have anything to do with me but they are all really good friends of mine. and like with the guy, ive asked him why he likes her and why he hasnt broke up with her yet. and he said it was because he still likes her. but no one gets why he still goes out with her after what she does to him. like she makes fun of him and flirts with ALL other guys and its not cool. cause hes awesome and we dont know why anyone would treat him like that. and then i have all my own problems with guys and its just all too confusing! please help me with these problems.. even though i have tons more! thanks anyway
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well the 2 friends who are drinking, well it's probably because of peer pressure or something. do lots of kids at your school drink (like high schoolers or even 8th graders)? because that may be the reason. but i'm in 7th grade too and nobody in my grade drinks (at least not that i know of) but even though your friends won't kill themselves from drunk driving or anything since they cant drive yet, they can still kill themselves by getting too much alcohol in their blood. i'm not really sure about these things but in the newest cosmogirl (haha i'm obsessed w/ it) it has this article about this girl who drank who almost died and maybe you should read it and then talk to your friends about it. but do they drink a lot? if they do, that could get pretty bad..
that girl who's obsessed with taht guy, maybe you should just get taht guy to go up to her and say to her to stop obsessing over him. i know that sounds pretty harsh, but if she needs to shut up w/o she getting mad at you, that's the only way i can think of. if that way won't work somehow, post again and i'll think of more ways.
and that guy who's gf is mean to him, well i guess somebody can't just STOP loving somebody just because they flirt and make fun of him. yeah but he needs to understand that his gf is treating him pretty badly. i'm sure he notices taht but he wants to keep giving her more chances and doesn't want to break up. but if she starts actually cheating on him or abusing him really badly somehow, then you should try to explain to him why they need to break up, because she's just not worth him. i hope i helped.. good luck!!
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