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dose my boy friend want to have sex or just want to talk abo


Question Posted Sunday February 20 2005, 11:33 pm

me and my bf talk on the every day and stop talking like 3am every nite and each time he calss we never have anything to talk about so i dont have any clues if he wants to talk aboutsex or what he is like calling me a freak and stuff so does he want to talk about sex wit me. then he be telling me that he is scared to have sex cus he aint ready to be a father. but he be telling me if i was over his house i would be screaming all nite. then at school he all ways be rubbing my legs on teh inside and that mt hotspot,( that mean the places that get me in the mode to kinda feel freaky) and he be touching the other spots too so dose he whats to talk about it or have it. cus he be toucjing me in those spots all the time. it like he wants me to feel like haveing sex the whole time but he is real sweet tho but he said he going to get mt fucked up likr really drunk or some thing but he said he wont have sex if i was but he said if he was drunk too he would have sex and be happy if he remember it.and we have been togther for like 2 mouths already and i think he really wants me to have sex wit him and i have been having dreams about haveing sex wit him too, and they be so real and when i wake up i feel really goos so is he trying to tell me some wit his body actions and they have he touches me on my body. please help me.

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hiwatari answered Monday February 21 2005, 8:50 am:
2 months? Don't be silly, don't have sex. The thing about dating is that if you give all of yourself... when you break up, a part of you will be left behind. And you said "at school". I'm pretty sure you won't be marrying this guy, so why give yourself away? Do you want to deal with consequenceS? STDs? Pregnancy? Do you know how many kids use condoms but forget some important facts about using one, and get pregnant?

I sound so cynical right here, but ask him to STOP talking about wanting sex. It may lead to a bad decision that will last all your life. You can fool around and act sexual, but real sex is for within marriage only.

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