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i need some advice!
ok well i just found out that my best friend andhe boy friend [ they have been going out for 3 months ] has been like doing bad things with her like fingering her. she said that she didnt wanna do it and he said he didnt either :-/. But if she cant say no to fingering is she gonnabe able to say no to like Sex or something...not to mention he has a record of doing stuff like that...i just really dont want anything bad to happen WHAT SHOULD I DO!
p.s they both just turned 14
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i don't know what she's going to say, i mean i'm not her after all. but make sure she knows the risks of doing it like STDs (that could seriously kill you) and getting pregnant. and if she says "we're going to use condoms and birth pills, etc... anyway!" well those don't help all the time.
tell her STDs could kill her or leave her infected for life. there's some that can leave warts in her private part as big as golf balls. some that cause red spots all over her body. some that cause white stuff to grow in your mouth (thrush), etc... or i bet you could even get more than one of those.
also if she gets pregnant *and she doesn't have abortion or send the baby to an orphanage or w/e* then she's going to have to take care of the baby. dude she's only 14, she's going to miss out on her childhood. babies are really hard to take care of (i only babysit them and they're a pain in the ass). what if both her parents work? then WHO is going to take care of the baby?? she's going to start failing school by taking care of her kid all the time and then she won't have a future at all. her baby probably isn't going to either.
also losing her virginity is a big thing. idk if i support that "no sex before marriage thing" or w/e...idc but like make sure she's absotlutely positively sure that she loves this guy with all her heart and that he won't leave her behind to take care of the baby ALL BY HERSELF if you get pregnant. good luck!!
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