my friend is a senior and wants me to go to prom. well she found us dates and she didnt tell me but they are gay. and both of those guys are goin out. i mean what if he dont wanna go to me and is like all over his boyfriend what should i do?
rainbowsend answered Tuesday February 15 2005, 11:37 pm: Prom is expensive (at least at most schools) I mean, there's the dress, dinner, and ticket, at the very minimum. Most girls also spend $ on hair, makeup, shoes, sometimes nails, pictures, limo, and more. Even if these guys are going to pay for dinner, ticket, limo, pictures (as applicable), it's still not a cheap night. If you're going to be uncomfortable, you won't have a good time, and it isn't worth the money.
My advice? Try to find another date for you and your friend.
Then again, it could be really fun with these guys. Look at it this way- most gay guys are better dancers than straight ones. Many gay guys are hot- nice hair, smell good, will look good in the tux. They'll know how to pick out a tasteful corsage. They'll know to coordinate colors of their tux and the flowers to your dress. You know he's not going to be looking at other girls. It could turn out to be a really fun night! It's just like if your date were one of your guy-friends- no romance, just a fun night. Except this guy isn't straight.
My advice should you choose to stick with the gay guys? Hang out with them a couple times between now and prom to get an idea as to whether or not you and your friend would have fun with them. Go bowling, or to a movie, or shopping (another good thing about gay guys- they can give great fashion advice and make great shopping buddies!) [ rainbowsend's advice column | Ask rainbowsend A Question ]
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