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sex and pregnacies
I am a 18 year old college student, a freshman of course. This semester I decide to stay on campus. I got a job and one day i meet this guy that is cool to be around as I thought. We started having sex with each other. Then I got pregnant in November, but I didn't find out to late December. I told him in January and he wanted to have an abortion but I am against and then he left this campus. Then he stop talking to me for a month. He is strong but this abortion. When I had seen him saturday night he say so horrible words about me. Then he said this wasnt his child. I do not know what to do about his approach to this situation. Last night he wanted to talk to me but I did not want to talk to me because all he do was yell and make bogus accusation about me. I want my child to have a dad but I dont want him to think that he rules because we have a child together. Am I approaching this the right way? Should I just tell him to stay out of my child's life? I dont even want his money. I just dont want my child without a father in his or her life. What should I do?
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It's a million times better for a kid to have no dad than a bad one who doesn't want or can't handle the responsibility, trust me. You need to have documents drawn up for him to sign to release all parental rights so he doesn't change his mind and annoy you later, then never speak to him again. Personally, I think the right thing to do would be to give the baby up for adoption, because you have an opportunity here to really change the life of a couple who can't have kids, but if you have a family you can depend on for support then that's the next best thing. Good luck!
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