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i dont usually make sense and im not so sure i will this time either.
i really like this guy wau back in 9th grade and he asked me out and then stuff happend and we stopped seeing each other. since tht day i have been continously dropping hints and on his last day of school i straight out told him tht i still like him. he went to a local university and i continued school but last month me and my mother unexpectedly had to move out of the country and i couldn't really meet him although i told him tht i was leaving. apparently , because it was all of a sudden he thought i was coming back ( or whatever) since i had my board exams coming up in a few months. now tht im hear in another country he seems so much nicer and he says a lot of stuff he never said when i was ther ( all these convo's would take place on the convo since over sea's calling rates are sky high) i kinda lied and told him tht i would be coming over for the summer and tht somehow appeased him but i cant go back there till like winter time or the summer of 2006 because i have to do a lot of catch up courses. if i dont see him online for 2 days or if he doesn't send me a line ,i start to get all nervous and uneasy for some reason. when he's mad at me i love him like hell but when he's not it's like its no big deal. i dont know what my problem is exactly but could u help me? what should i do?
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Lin
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Honestly? I think you might want to evaluate leaving all of this behind and starting over fresh. Liking someone during dramatic periods and not calm ones can mean you like the excitement of a relationship, not necessariy the actual person you're involved with.
Also, when the two of you were in the same country, it doesn't sound like made much of an effort...or even returned your feelings at all. I think there's a lot of game playing happening on both sides, and that's not fair to either of you.
You deserve a person who will be honest and open with you - and who you won't feel the need to lie to. You deserve a person you can love even at their most boring. Mainly, though, people deserve to have people they can see at least occasionally. What you have now is sort of a vague, complicated relationship - that is not strong enough to survive being apart for a year.
You are better off trying to work through your emotions and spending some time with local people you enjoy. Staying attached to an unhealthy relationship is a surefire recipe for longterm unhappiness. Best of luck.
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