Question Posted Thursday February 10 2005, 8:24 pm
me and this guy have been talking for a while..thing is he is a senior and im like 4 years younger than him..he told me that he had feelings for me and that he would want to date me when i become a freshman..i really like him alot and he is a very christian person but i dont want people to think of me the wrong way.i like him very much and i say i dont care what people would think of me but i dont know if they will think of me different.i would never do "something" with him because i am saving myself but sometimes people dont know that..what should i do..date him or just wait til i get older
sincerely,
ineedsomegoodadvice
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? ioloveohim answered Friday February 11 2005, 5:44 pm: ok well it really depends on the person and how many people know him and of course you. if you know a lot of people and they all know you would never do "anything" like that than it may be ok. i would personally still wait until you maybe both get older and if it is anything serious you will of course stay in touch.. it may not be that bad because when you think about 4 years isnt that far apart, but also there are many people that get married when even 10-15 years apart. but then again some people dont always think about the difference just the experience you have had. i have seen many people date even farther apart than this in their middle school years and i think it would be just fine. you can talk to me about this anytime and leave more questions. i would love to hear how this turns out. [ ioloveohim's advice column | Ask ioloveohim A Question ]
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