Question Posted Wednesday February 9 2005, 12:44 am
Im a married woman with 3 kids. Im having an affair with a single man 10 years younger than me. He knows Im married and have kids. But I lied about my age. Its been 2 years now that our rel. is going on. Im living a life like a single woman and go out every weekend to the pub and the disco. Going out many dates. But Im beginning to love this guy. Now, my marriage is on the rock bec. I dont sleep home at night during the weekend. Lots of my friend doesnt know this and I cant confide this to anybody. Im not willing to give up my relationship with this man although I know its not going to go anywhere. Pls. is there anybody who can help me.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Manulo answered Wednesday February 9 2005, 3:15 am: First of all you are lying to two men. You took vows with your husband and if you don't want to be married to him then get out of it. That's more important with this situation. Now as far as this guy is concerned does he know you have kids? Because if he doesn't he will find out. Sometimes these lies come back and haunt us. Don't be a victim to that and come clean. The longer you live this lie the worst it will be for you and you will end up alone. Think hard what you want in all this because you will have to give something up. Don't be afarid to, otherwise you will end up with nothing. [ Manulo's advice column | Ask Manulo A Question ]
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