Hello my name is J.B. and i am 17. I have asked this girl at my school out several times and she always seems to have something to do. Im thinking of giving up on her and moving on to this other girl that i have a crush on. She (in my oppinion) is the best looking girl in the school. Im not sure if she has a boyfriend or not, but i really like her and i just dont know what to do. Just so you know i also write poetry.
Crushes are a wonderful thing. They come and go with such ease and there always seems to be another that follows.
Im sorry to hear that the girl you desire is not responding to you very well but I think you have made an honest attempt to win her affections. She may be telling the truth (that she has a busy schedule) but if she did feel for you the way you do for her she would make time. With that, I think it is time you move on.
Now the question is, if you think this new girl is the most beautiful girl in the school then why havent you chosen to pursue her first? Well whatever the case, I think it would be best to advise you to learn more about this girl before planning your next move.
Befriend her before you pursue her. She may be beautiful but she may lack other qualities you find important in a significant other. This is also the best way to learn if she does or does not have a boyfriend.
I think it is excellent that you are a poet. Im sure you are very talented but I do not think it is wise for you to try and woo this girl with your poetry just yet. It is better to save the romance for when you are in a romantic relationship, which you have not started yet.
Enjoy youre new relationship J.B. Move through it slowly for you have plently of time on your hands.
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