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i thought that he cared
alright, my boyfriend just recently broke up with me. he has changed his reasoning for doing this at least like 4 times. one is that i was sleeping all day last saturday cuz i was sick and i guess that meant i blew him off, and then he says that its too much for him in basketball, and not hes saying that hes been talking to other people. i try to confront him about it so we can be at least friends, but i guess he doesnt want to even be friends, but i dont want to let our relationship go, signed, it was too good to be true
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Dear It was Too Good to be True,
Relationships are always hard. Its practically impossible to be able to understand whats going on in someone elses mind. For this reason people say the only way for a relationship to truly last is to openly communicate.
I find it odd how for some reason your ex isnt too keen on rationally talking things out with you.
In hearing that your ex has continually changed his mind as to why he left you, I am left only to believe that he is looking for some excuse to put you off.
Since you sincerely want to remain friends with this boy I will advise you to try and talk to him one last time. Tell him you care about him and you dont want to end your relationship on a bad note. Tell him you are not sure exactly what went wrong but that you are happy with the time you did spend together.
If he still suggests you two go your separate ways then do. There is no point in chasing after someone who does not wish to be with you any longer.
Perhaps it just was not meant to be. Happily move on. I have no doubts that you will find someone more fantastic.
Best of Luck,
She Screams.
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