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Hey, I like this guy, and uh. well its complicated. We're having a hard time. He is in a differnt school now and its weird because i can't know what he's doing. and now he's into drugs...and i mean that wasn' the guy i went out with three times. but everytime i see him, i see the old guy. not the new one. and i really like him i get like shakey around him and well, we haven't talked since october but he just texted me last night. i'm not sure what to do..? he is calling me soon and ah..just help please! what should i do?!?!
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Dear Complicated,
Distance sure changes people doesnt it? I guess you know this better than anyone else right now.
The real issue at hand here is if you can accept this boy for who he is now. Are you okay with him being into drugs? I hope your answer is no.
I know you may still want so desperately to believe that this boy is still the loveable, goodhearted boy he once was but that obviously is no longer the case. I sincerely doubt that he will ever be that boy again. I think you may need to come to terms with this sad realization.
You seem like such a nice person. I would hate to have you date this boy only to be dissapointed in him later. Choose to find someone else who will meet your expectations. You deserve someone who will respect you and himself. Drugs are never an option. This boy is just not strong enough to turn them away. You need someone smart enough to know how to treat their body. If he hasnt enough sense to know how to treat himself right how sure can you be that he will treat you right?
Turn him down gently. Tell him you two just arent compatible. Find someone better.
Best of Luck,
She Screams.
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