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ok im dating this guy right? and i thought i loved him, but now i just feel mad or sad or weird around him... like hes annoying me or something. i really think i love him... but its like i need a break. i donno how to tell him without hurting him... ive been trying to spend a lil less time with him lately but i donnno. i dont want to send the wrong message, i still wanna go out with him... i just need some time on my own. i end up getting really angry or vexed or hurt when i talk to him online...even tho he doesnt do anything wrong. ok im not gonna sign this just in case people i dont want reading it read your advice thingy, but u know who i am. or...do you? >:-) hehe
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Tricky situation, I must say. Well, I'd say talk to the guy, and find out exactly how he feels about you and if the feelings are mutual.
If so- take a break, and continue being friends and stuff, just hold out on the seriousness of the relationship. He'll understand, if this is the case... and...
If not- =flinch= Owch. Well, figure out a way to gently let him down by writing a note (though I did that with Colton and it didn't work according to plan) or keep going out with him until you really feel like there is something wrong.
It sounds like this is a deeper problem than just your boyfriend, so maybe sort through other things going on in your life, i.e. school, extracurriculars, friends, family, whatever worries you.
Maybe show the guy you're dating this link. ;D It might give him a good idea of how you feel w/o messing everything up.
xoxo, kath
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