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Guy issues >.>


Question Posted Saturday January 29 2005, 10:08 pm

So, Celena darling, help me out here.

I like this guy a lot. We happen to be very close friends, and I am fairly sure that he looks on me as at least a *little* more than a friend. I know for a fact a relationship would do nothing to damage our friendship, even if such a relationship were to terminate. He's just not that kind of person.

The PROBLEM is, I told him I liked him months ago, before he developed whatever small reciprocation he has now. I bring it up occasionally in social situations, just a little remark to let him know *I*'m still interested... and he usually drops the bait. I know the ball is in his court, so I guess my question is...

Do I wait for him? I think it's worth it, but I don't know if he'll EVER come around...


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Celena answered Saturday January 29 2005, 10:40 pm:
I see two sides to this rather interesting coin.

On the one hand, you've already told him you are interested, and, as you've said the ball is in his court.

On the other hand, if, as you say, you have nothing to lose from bringing the topic up again, well, why not?

However, if he presents you with a second no, then you need to put this behind you, as solidly and quickly as possible.

Trust me, nothing in the world is harder than putting a crush on a good friend behind you.

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