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falling for a best friend
alrighty then, in short i think i'm falling for one of my best guy friends. he's a really nice guy and alot of fun to hang out with, but my best friend kind of/most likely likes him too. i haven't said anything to her because i'm not sure if i do like him and i have a feeling that she'll get mad at me. i don't want to like him since he has a girlfriend and all and i don't want to make things weird between us but it's not exactly something i can help. what should i do? any suggestions?
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If you're best friends with these two, I'd suggest first talking openly with the girl, and see if she really does like him. If the two of you are really close, hopefully you can talk to her openly about things like this.
Second, if you're a close friend of the guy's, see how serious he is with his girlfriend. Perhaps you can talk to him openly too. If he's a good guy, he'll hopefully understand your situation. If you really think he won't listen or will get sorta freaked out, put off this confrontation.
Sometimes, it's best to put aside your own heart to help others; I've lost count of how many times I've had to step aside without telling someone how much I really cared for them, but we've almost always stayed friends.
Before you do anything at all, though, track down your heart and have an open one-on-one talk with HER. Because if she has second thoughts about anything, maybe it's just not meant to be. Your heart should always be consulted first.
Good luck, and I hope things work out.
~Kura
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