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Sexuality
mandie I'm having some huge problems battling my sexuality I mean I'm not quite sure how to put this. I'm not sure if I'm gay or straight and it's seriously scaring me, I've always had this ongoing battle in my head but barely lately has it become a big problem. I'm so scared because I know it's wrong and I don't think I'd ever be able to go through with it and tell my family and friends, but on the other hand. I'm not even sure if I am gay or if I'm just being paranoid, either way I know I can't continue on like this for much longer, and that's what scares me the most. There are plenty of times where I find myself looking at the same sex thinking they look good, then looking at the opposite sex and thinking they look just as good. All of these questions are slowly and painfully killing me plus I'm scared that God will punish me for being gay, I've tried evrything, enticing myself with the opposite sex, praying to God, doing just about everything to convince myself that I'm not gay, infact in my future I do picture myself being with the opposite sex. Please Mandie help me you are my last hope I'm just so scared of myself and my peers that I'm not sure what to do anymore.
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okay. it sounds to me that you are just going through that questionable phase. almost everyone i know has actually thought about themself with the same sex.
your visualizing yourself with the opposite sex when you get older. thats good. don't scare yourself into thinking your gay. its normal to look at other people the same sex as you and kinda size them up and compare them to other people and stuff. i know i look at girls and compare mself to them and compare them to other girls..but i don't think i'm a lesbian.
be secure in your sexuality. if your gay, there are plenty of people who will support you. but there are also people who will shun you. but most people don't really care. if your straight, get girlfriends..but just know that its not gay to look at guys. now if you start to imagine sexual stuff with guys then you need to really sit down and decide if your straight or not.
hope i helped... :)
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