ok i have this one friend, and i love her to death, shes one of my best friends(we will call her Jof) and all but heres the thing.... shes like obsessed with this other girl (we will call her Kog)!! Jof will call Kog to do something, then if Kog can't, then she'll call me. And even if I call Jof and ask her, she'll say "Lets ask Kog to come too," or "Kog is such a great friend" and she will always bring her up! And in Jof's profile, is says under friends-
***!!Kog!!*** then me. And Kog doesnt call Jof or anything! And I always call Jof!! I love Jof and Kog (as friends) but god Jof is annoying.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? hopeihelped answered Monday January 24 2005, 7:41 pm: That's awesome that you two are good friends. The fact that she really enjoys the company of her other friends shouldn't bother you. But if she seems like she is overly obsessed with this girl, than you need to talk to her about it. Maybe you're too shy for a face to face conference. In that case, you should write out a powerful letter, neatly and thoughtfully written. This will really help alot because if she doesn't want to talk to you, she will read it. I mean, we all get curious sometimes.
I really hope things work out for you because it REALLY hurts to lose a friend. Just talk to her.
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