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Question Posted Sunday January 23 2005, 12:19 am

ok well one of my really close friends dresses like a slut... she went to this party wearing like unbelievably short jean shorts, fishnets, and a tank top... shes only made out with one guy before and she claims that he fingered her (even tho he didnt)... its like she wants to be a "bad girl" and its really pissing me off... she tells people that this guy fingered her and she dresses slutty whenever she gets the chance... shes a total prep so she is failing at all of this... shes ggone to a private school all her life and is rich and spoiled... i love her personality when shes around me and everything its just that she wants to be a bad girl or "experienced" and its so annoying... i cant talk to her because she would get so pissed at me but i dont know what to do... please help! i rate 5s
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hailebop answered Sunday January 23 2005, 6:38 am:
You can talk to your friend about, but, to be honest, it's her choice how she lives her life, and if she wants to be preppy, dress in a certain way and act like she's more sexually experienced than she actually is, then thats her prerogative. If you really can't stand the way she behaves and she won't listen to reason, then maybe you just aren't compatible as friends. But honestly, I think this could be worked out by you talking to her how different she is, and how you don't like that she presents such a fake image of herself. She probably doesn't realise how much she turns up that side of her when she's out partying, and you being honest and frank might bring her down to earth a bit. It isn't an easy conversation to have, but it's better than the two of you just growing apart because you can't talk any more. Best of luck.

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