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Sex Problems
Me and my bf are 16 and when we have sex it doesn't last that long the first time he couldn't get it up he has a very small penis just over 3 inches long he really embarrassed about it i told him it doesn't matter to me but he still worried about it could that be part of the problem?
im not sure what to do i don't want to make him feel bad what can we do are their certain positions we could try that would help?
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hi. sorry ive took so long to get your message answered. ok him being worried about his size and embarrassed is most likly 90% of his problem. hes not confident so basically hes sittin there in his mind thinking "get up" (talking to himself downthere) or "i wonder if she likes this because im small?!" or something of that nature. and by him doing that hes not getting an erection. and im not too sure on what you can do on the posistion factor. but ill let you know that only about 4 or 5in (or it might be 3 or 4in) from the openining of your vagina and up has nerves. so say you have a guy that was 7in.. you wouldnt feel it anymore than you would feel a guy thats 4 or 3. you get where im going at? (unless you are not tight down there then i would tell you to do kegal excersises. and if you want to kno more about that ill give you the webiste and you can just leave me a message in my inbox.) and maybe you can do something to get him to have an erection. it is always best to have a little fore play before you have sex. some people are differnt. with my bf we just kiss and make out and we are able to have sex. because he can get an erection fast because hes not worried about himself. nor does he have to be. so id say for you and your boyfriend... if you want him to get an erection do some other stuff that will lead to sex and see how it goes. and just always inform him that his size doesnt matter to you and you love him the way he is.
hope i helped.
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Manda
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