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boyfriend lied...
my boyfriend and i have been dating for 7 months now. he keeps lieing to me. do you think it is time to dump him or stay. also, this girl name jessica likes him and me and her used to be friends but then i found out she liked him so i started to hate her. i told her to leave him alone and she decides to go and tell him to brake up with me. She is going to ask him out. He also embarassed me in front of like everyone. what should i do?
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Y'all should stop for so many reasons.
1. He lies to you. If you expect anything better of him than you have two options. A) Beat the living hell out of him with a 2X4 or B) Talk to him for several hours repeating yourself several times. Then, he'd be too afraid of the consiquinces to do it again. It may seem stupid or goofy but trust me, it will work. If you don't like those options, dump him.
2. Seven months... damn... WIDEN YOUR HORIZONS. You don't want to stay stuck with the SOS (same old situation)day in and day out do you? Do like my friend, dump him, well not dump because that emplies you don't like him, just, break up with him and remain friends. If you are really that angry with him, then yes, dump him. Lying is something friends do, not what boyfriends do if they really care for you.
3. Your friend likes him. This will result in a HUGE conflict if you don't dump him. She will hate you. You will hate him. He will hate himself. That's not what you want! If your friends are attracted to him than that means that your relationship isn't that strong because then they think that y'all ain't that serious (make fun of my redneck accient and I'll slit you...j/p)
4. Okay, this is just a little addition... He embarassed you. He lies to you, your friend is going to ask him out, and your stuck in a conflict. The last thing you need is embarassment. I find it stupid that you and your friend are fighting over this guy, because that should serve as a sign that he's been flurting with other girls for one to like him consider the GF factor. He doesn't care for you too much if he's lied for 7 months, embarassed you, and is probably looking at other girls.
If you ever have to question your relationship then negative results are sure to follow. I'm sure you can do better than him, because for every person that's wrong for you, there's the same person whose right.
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