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Its kayla again
OK,let me retell you this story so you can accually understand it.ok let me break it down 4 you! 1.me and nick started goin out in 2003! 2.we last went out like jan. 2004. 3. after the last time we broke<jan. 2004> he never moved on and i did and he knew about it. 4. i kept asking him out even when i did have a bf and that was no problem 4 him or me. 5.he always said idk. 6.like 2 weeks ago i was single and he was single and since he kept saying idk i made out with some one named chad!7.he called and asked me if that was true and i said yea and then he said he wasnt gonna lie to me either and then he said he still like his ex! i threated to hurt myself!<but i didnt>and then he said he wouldnt go out with her!the next day they were goin out! and my friend called nick and said i was in the hospital<i wasnt though>! and he still contined to go out with her! they broke up yesterday and i called him and asked if they did and it was true! he siad i wasnt in the hospital and i said yes i was hun! just bein sarcastic! and he said he wasnt my hun and that was just a waste of time when we went out! and then he called back and called me a whore! and i havent talked to him since! yea soo now it will probably be easyer to tell me what to do to get him back! i STILL need help! IM me lildreamhunny14 or call 314-221-5695 *kayla*
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It seems like he's mad at you right now. So I think to keep things on a good level, you should call him again. Handle it gently, don't try to fight. Be really mature about it, he will appreciate that. And ask if he really meant that it was a watse of time when you went out, because you didn't think it was. If you say something along the lines of that it will hint that you still like him, and want to go out. But it will also let him know that you care about what he says and that is important because guys want a girl that won't bitch a lot. It might even keep him guessing about what you meant by saying you didn't think it was a waste of time going out.
Interest him. Seriously, guys don't like the typical girls, they want someone interesting. And I think it would be best if you built up a friendship with him to start off with. This would be good for the reason that you still have him, so you won't miss him and it can help your chances of getting him back. He will notice the little things you do. So if he accomplished something, send him a cute card or make him something that he likes. He will be suprised and very happy. The trick is to make him happy, and let him be able to open up to you. Talk about the hard times you guys went through, and maybe you'll be able to work something out.
Tell him you want him back when you feel the time is right. Just like girls, guys don't want to guess how you feel. Tell him that you didn't like it when he went out with his ex, because you still do like him and you miss going out with him. Keep in mind, that you shouldn't get all gushy over that. Just keep it simple and to the point. If you say something like " I couldn't imagine my life without you, I just want to be yours..no one else, just me" you might scare him off. If he disagress and just wants to be friends, then I don't know what to tell you. You can't make him like you. He has to make his own decisions. So just trust him on that.
Is this better? =D Thank you so much for explaining to me more! I don't think I quite understood the first time, so thank you again for clearing that up for me! Let me know if you need anything else!
Love,
Mandee
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