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what do i do?
my friend janet told me that she cant stand living with her mom any more and that she wants to leave her house as soon as possible..cuz her mom doesnt believe any of the things she tells her(its a long story)...does anybody know any numbers she can call that are related to this sort of situation? thanx a lot!
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Call DSS or a child lawyer, if she is old enoguh she can sort of "divorce" her parents I dont remeber exactly how you might want to look it up. There are tons and tons of places to help kids in her situtation. Fidn help soon though becuase thi scna cuase serious emotional damge or depression. trust me, if you knew my family I've been through it. YOu need to get her a conselor even though if she seems fine let her know you will always talk to her baou it. It's great your concerned abotu her. you must be a great friend.
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Hey Hun, i'm proud of u for being a GREAT friend but she can call the Runaway Hotline 800-231-6946 National Runaway Hotline 800-621-4000!! Hope i Helped! XoXo NiCoLe~
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The Runaway Hotline or the National Runaway Hotline, as mentioned in one advice column are excellent ideas. But I'd try talking with a counsellor first. Since you mentioned that this lack of trust was based on "a long story," I'm assuming it was from a lot of things your friend did (i.e., lying or stealing or things like that). This would make sense that her mom would have trouble trusting her, and this would be an ideal starting place for counselling, both for your friend AND her mom. It would be a good idea to start with the friend, but communication needs to work between the two of them sooner or later.
If the situation is too difficult for Janice to tolerate, is there a friend she might be able to stay with for a short amount of time, assuming of course that her mother knows about it and approves? Running away is only a temporary solution to a permanent problem because the problem remains when you come back. I do not advise your getting between Janice and mom, but big Kudos to you for being loving and concerned for both of them. Hope I helped and keep in touch.-----shelbyjune
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Runaway Hotline 800-231-6946
National Runaway Hotline 800-621-4000
Good Luck and Congrats to you for being a good friend to her and wanting to help her.
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well im guessing she isnt 18 yet. she cant just up and move out, unless she has a good reason. if her mom is abusing her, physically or emotionally, call DHR. if its not abuse, she needs to talk with a counselor or close relative. continue to be there for her and offer to let her come over often.
x3 KaTiE LyNn
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how old is she cuz if shes 18 then she can move in with some1 if not then just find some1 to help her take her away cuz if her mom dosent trust her or anything like that then something might be wrong it might be worse that just no trust so if some1s around that can help find them(administrator at school, teacher, some1 even talk to your parents about it) so thats all i can say hope i helped
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