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Question Posted Tuesday January 11 2005, 8:40 pm

Here's My story ...
I met this guy @ a party last year, not like where i never new him before but he goes to my school and i dreamed of talking to him but i thought it would never happen but then last year in october I was invited to this party , and he was there ... it was the first time we actually spoke to eachother and he finally knew who i was. We Flirted constantly and then by the next couple days we started to like eachother and then he asked me out !! Of course i said YES , and from then and on we were unseprable, I fell in love with him .. i know im really young to say that but it was real love. Being with him made me the happiest person in the world ... until this one night, he was invited to this party , and i wasn't...He asked for my permission to go and of course im gonna say ya , it's not like i control his life. So i had a friend stay over while everyone else was at the party. Me and my friend Sat online talking to someone Posing as him and they were calling me slut and bitch and all this stuff then trying to act like it was my boyfriend... everyone was telling him to break up with me ... and he listened. The breakup was deadly because We had a date that day and i showed up at the place to meet him there and he never came so after a couple hours i came home and on my away message was a message from him saying i think we need to break up . Im a strong person but when the only thing in the world that matters to you just wants to give you away it really hurts... it turns out the reason why he broke up with me is because one of my good "friends" @ the party was saying he should break up with me .. because she wanted to go out with him... and that's exactly what happened... I went to school like nothing was wrong but in my insides i felt like i wasnt ment to be on this world...I can't get over him no matter how many times he hurts me i want him !! I wish I could just go back in time and not do what ever i did to make it like this ... it's been a year and i still cry about not being with him ... I just want to get over him , i think but i dont no how , i need some advice


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Melissa21 answered Tuesday January 11 2005, 9:15 pm:
ok first of all I know it is very hard , and Im really sorry to hear that but if you have very supportive friends that care about you, they will try to cheer you up and take you to do fun things like shopping , hanging out or going to the movies.When Im upset I try to find things to do with myself like watch tv to get things off my mind . Somewhere in life you will find someone that will be perfect for you but obviously he wasnt the one so dont get upset just think of it as your better than that so just keep being yourself.Try talking to your friend - the one that wanted your boyfriend, try to see why she was all in on this and try to work it out . Just try to not think about it . I know that sounds hard but with school and life it can be hard.You'll get through it trust me ;) I hope I helped, ask again and please Rate me !~* xoxox -Melissa-

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