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im a freshman in high school and i've never had a boyfriend before. i can think of tons of guys i would jump at the chance to go out with but i don't know how to flirt really well or convey my feelings without putting myself on the line. im not really ugly but i think when a guy starts flirting with me i just automatically turn shy and kind of ignore him which i know is bad because he probably mistakes it for being mean! how can i flirt without being too bold, but still getting the idea across...?
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Well, first of all, don't get too bent out of shape about not ever having a boyfriend yet. Tons of girls don't have a boyfriend until they are in college. You should only want a boyfriend when you are entirely ready for one and have already discovered yourself. With that said: have confidence in yourself. When you have confidence, guys will see that. Smile. It goes iwth everything. To help you get more comfortable around guys, talk to your guy friends more. Hang out with them more. Just be yourself around them. Now as for the flirting aspect..just start it off simple. Maybe next time you are in class and a guy you think is cute and compliment him. Like: "Oh Bobby, that shirt looks nice on you." Then flash a quick smile. This way, he feels ood about himself and notices than you noticed him. Or, maybe if you are in the hall walking to classand you see a guy from your class walk beside him and say:"Did you get the homework last night?" Little subtle comments always break the ice. Just try little things like that and work your way up to asking guys to hang out on the weekends with you. (In a group) Or, ask a guy for his number for "homework help". Just have confidence, and most importantly-BE YOURSELF!! :)
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