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Hey Sweetie! K well I had this "serious" boyfriend for a while and im having mixed feelings about him. ya know like do i like you or do i like someone else. like when im with him i kinda like him but when im not i mean hey im a big flirt. so like do you think i should give guys a rest all together. concentrate on one or what? i need help idk what to do?? xox me xox
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haha well if you're having mixed feelings.. it's never good to drag the guy along while you sort it all out in your head. it's just not fair to him if your'e stringing him along JUST beacause you don't know what to do. so if you're having if-fy feelings.. i would take a break from the relationship. it's only fair to you AND him.. so neither of you gets hurt. you wouldn't want to lose a friend as well would you? if you do take a break and realize that your serious guy IS the one for you, then it would be best to let him know ASAP. but take some time off first.. you mentioned you might like another guy.. is there one in particular you were thinking of? because thinking of another guy while having a serious guy.. that almost can count as cheating. and if your not being true to your boyfriend.. well you know what to do. it's time to reevaluate what you really want. you want this new guy, go for it. but don;t let your boyfriend get hurt in the process. i wouldn't take a break from all guys unless you really want to. because maybe going after this new guy will help sort things out. if you don't try something with him, you won't ever know what could happen.
a little (or a lot) of flirting is fun.. so if you DO decide to take a break from guys.. well don't totally rule out flirting.. because it's amazing lol. good luck with whatever you decide.. im sure it will be the right thing.
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