Heya, I'm a 16 (almost 17) year old girl, and there's this guy I met back in August on a cruise. We hung out, and it was so amazing. But now, we're home which means I'm in New York and he's in California. I'm going to California in March and I really want to see him, but whenever I talk to him, I don't know, it just doesn't feel the same as it did back in August. The big problem is that I know I fell for him last summer, and I know such a long distance relationship won't work, but I still want to keep in touch and stuff, but I don't want it to be weird, you know? Please help...I don't know what to do, or say, and I don't want to make a fool out of myself of which I have the habit of doing!!!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? PerfectPixie answered Saturday January 8 2005, 10:03 pm: I'm assuming that you guys talk viz internet. If you do, or even if u talk on the phone, i think you should talk to him. Tell him that you're going to California and suggest you two meet up someplace. If on the internet he seems iffy about it, then don't push the subject. If you two do hang out, see how it goes. If you feel as comfortable with him as when you guys hung out in August, then deffinitely go for it. Tell him you want to keep in touch with him. If he's a nice guy, he should like the idea and figure out a plan in which you two keep in touch. Well i hope i helped!
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