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getting mixed signals
Hey.....ok..There is this boy named Tom that i have a huge crush on. i think he is the biggest crush i have had. Well all my fiends keep going up to him and bugging him about me and i feel really bad. So im getting mixed signals from him. He stares at me all the time in chorus, everytime i walk by him in the hallway he watches me walk down the hall. Then my friend Mike got his number from him and told him that he was going to give it to me and he said sure go ahead i dont care. Then everytime Mike or someone else goes up to him and goes tom you should go out with Laura. He laughs and blushes and smiles. Then he told these other people he didn't really know that he didn't like me so i dont know what to believe.
What should i do to clear this whole situation up?
(oh by the way im 14 and in 9th grade and female, sorry about the lenght)
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Well sounds to me like this boy that you like is a shy one! Going back to my freshman year i can remember how the boys acted, and yes, they were mostly all this way. From what i can see it sounds like he likes you but he just may be to shy to admit it. Maybe he is afraid that you don't really like him and that if he admits to likeing you he may end up being embarassed. Most of the time if a guy isn't interested he isn't going to blush and smile when someone tells him he should go out with a girl, usually they will be blunt and just say no. Well really you have 2 options... it all just depends on the type of girl you are. If you are bold then just talk to him about it, be open. You don't even have to do it in person if you don't want to, you could call him or even talk to him on AOL. Be upfront with him and be like hey i have something to tell you, i'm not sure how you'll take it, but I think its easier for me to get it out. And then tell him how you feel. He sounds shy you so may need to take the first step and you may be shocked with the result! But, if that isn't your style then another way to deal with this could be to just allow him to come to you, maybe hint to him that you actually DO like him so he knows for sure from you, flirt with him, and see what kind of response you get from it. But DON'T overdo it, remember guys like a challenge. If he starts to act not interested back off... but chances are he will take the initiative and if your lucky, make an effort! Hope i could help!
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