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ughh tara maybe you can help...
Hey Tara, its Ro! =) ok well im just gonna cut to why im writing cuz im confused and durt and i can't stop crying.My boyfriend just broke up with me, wasnt a long relationship, its been 3 weeks but i was really starting to care a lot about him. I dont know what wrong with me! i cant keep a guy anymore. Last Thursday i had this little party at my house and my bf was there and my friends. One of my friends was flirting with jimi so i was getting mad. Jimi asked onf of my other friends why i was mad and she told him that it was because i thought he was flirting with my other friend. So he ran out of the house and took a half hr walk, punched a pole, and a garage door.i cried in front of evenybody.I thought the worst.Then FINALLY wen he got back we talked and i remember exactualy what he said "i really like you alot, i'd never hurt you. you make me feel soo good inside" ... but wtf! he said he wouldnt hurt me & he did. iduno if he see any problem nd i dont even know if this is making any sense i just needed a way to talk to anyone cuz my friends arent the "advice" people nd i cant talk to tem about anything bc most of them have never had boyfrieds and just wouldnt understand. well i think i should make my point a little more, i REALLY like him, i THOUGHT he was different, i CANT be his friend, and since hes 2 years older than me i THOUGHT he was treating me better and was more MATURE ... i thought he ment it when he said he wouldnt hurt me ='/
im gonna stop writing now. i could go on more but i know you got more adivce to give. i dont even think theres advice for what i said , i needed a place to vent or someting... thanks for listening hun <3
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RoRo,
of course i would listen! there's advice to give for EVERYONE, and i hope that i can give you the advice you need to hear. i don't understand why you are so upset, being that it is only 3 weeks. but it seems like you two really like each other. ill do my best to give you advice because i have never liked anyone that much after such a short period of time, so i can't lie and tell you i know what it's like. it sounds like jimi got a little bit upset that you would think he would ever hurt you. and maybe you are a little bit insecure still, and need to be able to trust him. but he DID hurt you. and that is what you're upset about. because he told you he wouldn't. just because you had one little fight doesnt mean you are going to be doomed as a couple. try talking to him. you both are kind of overreacting. you should have the "trust" talk, and by that i mean telling him that you need to be able to trust him and he needs to be able to trust you.. no relationship works without trust.
you did good picking an older one tho.. the maturity level kind of evens out because boys are idiots :-D
hope everything works for and jimi.. good luck and keep me posted! lemme know how things are going in the big apple! <3 ya
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