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ok so i met these 2 guys over the summer. lets just say their names are nick and bob. well i was at this camp and they were in my group and they were friends of my cousins and so they were like hey how are you yada yada. and when the camp was over we still stayed in touch by talking online.they live an hour away from me. but while we were at the camp i started to like nick alot. and bob started to like me and he still does but i dont like him that way.we have met up a couple of times( all three of us) and just hung out. i finally stopped liking nick but i am not sure i really got over him ( he liked me but he also liked this other girl and then he finally just started liking the other girl and not me)so i saw him this weekend along with bob and i danced with him a little and hung out with both of them and i still like nick alot and i can't seem to get over him. bob still likes me and i don't really like him back. how do i stop liking nick? and how do i be friends with bob without it feeling awkward? sorry if this didn't make any sense.
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So do you just wish everyone could just be friends? because you want to stop liking Nick that way, and still wanna be friends with BOb, I hope I am understanding you correctly...well you can't just stop liking Nick, even if you want to, the feelings are gonna go at your heart's pace. Just don't tell him or do anything about it if you don't want to start awkwardness between you three. I had a similar problem before, and I know that it CAN get awkard if not cause a lot of problems. Someone could get singled out and hurt. Just don't give BOb any reason to think you like him back. And I know it's hard, but at the same time you gotta try not to hurt Bob by "going out" with Nick. Basically, for now just stay neutral and just be a friend to both guys, until you can figure out a comfortable point to do whatever it is you choose to do. That's all you CAN do for now. Hope everything works out :)
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