So, I've been crushing for... well months, and now things have taken a little turn, we talk more and text and so on and so forth and I'm really excited about it because I've worked so hard for this. But if we ever do end up going out I don't want to be pressured into doing anything I dont want to do. It seems like a catch 22, someone I've worked so hard for, but now don't want to go too far with. I know what most of you are thinking, "TOO FAR?", but I want to keep to my standards even for this person that I have worked so hard to have... what would you do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? XoLiLmsYaNkeeOx answered Sunday January 2 2005, 5:12 pm: Sounds like someone is having cold feet. I think it's great that you have found someone you really like, and it sounds as if they like you too. You're scared of going "too far" with this person though, and that is totally understandable. I know the feeling of working hard to achieve something and then getting it, it's one of the best in the world. You want to stick to your standards though, and that means that if you two do have a relationship, the other person is going to have to know what those standards are. And the only way they will know is if you tell them. That task can be kind of tricky, but I think you can handle it. As far as what I would do, definitely keep to what I beleive in. And share my beleifs with my boyfriend/girlfriend. I advise you to do the same... so good luck! [ XoLiLmsYaNkeeOx's advice column | Ask XoLiLmsYaNkeeOx A Question ]
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