Hello. I recently have run a mighty fine relationship into the ground. It was great and now it's in shambles. I was very active with this girl, seeing her a lot, a great phsyical and mental attraction, I felt on the same level and that things were going great. Well she dumped me. My friend almost got serious with her but didn't of behalf of me. Well now there is another girl that I like. I'm not positive how serious it is. I don't know if it is just a fling or the real thing. I still have active feelings for both girls, it's just nothing can happen with the first one so why bother? I just can't help it. I'm not sure what to do? Can you help? Thanks,
-Anonymous
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? justsomeotherguy answered Sunday January 2 2005, 1:31 am: About the second relationship, the more current one, if things have gone between you in the past, and you've liked each other before, I'd say that it isn't a fling, because it's happened more than once over a period of time, about the one you ruined, since you said nothing can happen, it obvious nothing can happen, so just get it out of your system. don't use girl 1 to get girl 2 out of your system, that's horrible, and I'd have to call the "you're a horrible person police" just don't do it. I'd spend more time with girl 1, if your feelings grow everytime you're with her, and you and her have shared similar feelings in the past, then I'd say it would be a safe bet to start prosuing a more serious relationship. However, do no prosue a relationship with girl 1 if your feelings for girl 2 are still strong enough to even begin to rival those with girl 1, if it's like a 35-65, i smell disaster. girl 2 below 15, at least. [ justsomeotherguy's advice column | Ask justsomeotherguy A Question ]
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