I really love my boyfriend, and I do everything for him, from buying him clothes and giving him food and a place to stay, to all the normal boyfriend girlfriend activities. I want to make him feel the same way about me, not MAKE him, but I just want him to be happy. I don't feel like he feels the same way about me as I do about him. How can I make my boyfriend want me more but still respect me and be happy at the same time?
Signed,
Hopelessly in Love
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Blade answered Friday January 14 2005, 7:20 pm: you should talk to him about it, let him know how you feel and what you want out of the relationship.(probably about the same way you asked me your question but more in depth). probably the # one building block in a relationship is communication, so talk to him. find out where hes at and where he wants to go with the relationship and vise versa. Also, your not his wife so you dont have to Give him food, clothes, and a place to stay, sure its a nice gesture but when youre doing all this for him, what is he doing for you? make sure youre actually getting something out of this relationship that you can benefit from. dont let yourself go unheard or used, speak up and get what you deserve. hope everything works out for the best.
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