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you already answered one of my questions but i wanted to talk to you again...what is bothering me so much is i dont understand if he was just using me or not..cause like i said it always seemed like i liked him more than he did me..he never really opened up and showed me his emotions or told me how he felt..like i always told him how much i loved him and all that stuff..and we really did care for each other..like he would ALWAYS talk about "when we get married were gonna do this.."..and a week before he broke up with me i told him that if he didnt change i was going to leave him cause i wasnt getting treated right..well we talked on the phone and he practically begged me to stay..well a week later or so he broke up with me but he still acts like he likes me..i already told you what happened..well i think that he knew that however bad he treated me i would always come back to him..so he got things he didnt deserve all the time if you get what i mean...do you think that he really did like me and he knew that i always gave in to easily so he felt like he was using me and the reason why he broke up with me is cause he didnt feel right about doing that? or what..im confused
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hey. i dont think that he used you, or if he did, maybe just a little. you seem to have been very attached to him and showing him what you feel a lot. maybe he didnt know how to do it back. some guys dont know how to show a lot of emotions, they keep it all inside, maybe thats what he did. but the fact he sometimes got more than he deserves because you easily came back to him could lead you to thinking that he did use you. i cant say if he did or not because different guys act different ways. but, if he still shows feelings for you, then maybe he just didnt know how to open up, but be careful, because guys can mess you up if you give them too much of your love. i am not trying to tell you what to think, but there are arguments that could mean that he did, and there are arguments that could mean that he didnt. for example, you coming back to him easily would make it very easy for him to use you. but that he begged you not to leave him and him talking about when you guys get married and that he still seems to like you could show that he just didnt know how to express his feelings towards you. what i would do, is not go to him again, even if you still like him. if he really does still like you, he should come back to you. so if he attempts to talk or flirt with you, show him than he can do that, answer back to his attempts. however, do not make it too easy for him to do. what i'm trying to say is that maybe you need to play hard to get a little, just to see if he really does care about you, do you get what i mean? dont worry, if he really does care, he'll come back, no matter how hard it is to get you (dont make it too hard for him though). and if he doesnt come back, then he either did use you, he lost interest/found someone else, or something like that. but dont lose hope, if he still flirts with you, then maybe he just needs to get some things straight. if you guys do go out again, dont come back to him so easily, but still open up. tell him how you feel about this whole thing, maybe that will help. well, i hope i helped more than last time, if you have any more questions, feel free to write back! peace and love
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