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hey i was reading all of your advice and feedbacks and it seems like yr really good at helping people so i was gonna ask you a question.. so here it goes lol.
ok im a girl (13) goin to jr. high. i like this guy (ben) whos in my language arts class. we went out for like 2 weeks in the beginning of the year and i heard rumors about him saying crap about how oh he only liked me for my looks. so i did what most (13 year olds would do and i broke up with him. then he came up to me in the hall and told me he never said that.. still mad i just walked on bye and into my 3rd period class. *i no it was a pretty bitchy thing to do but i was pissed and have had some really bad rumors going around.. making me more mad* so then later i find out that no he never said anything and so we just decieded to be friends. and it worked for a while. i found other guyz... but then for aboutthe bast 2 or 3 weeks ive kinda had a crush on him. (being such good friends were always talking and hes so nice and sweet and its kinda hard not to.) i told my best friend (kalyn) about it and she took it as (oh im gonna ask him out for her) although i told her not to.. she did anyway.. and he said i was a friend and he didnt want to ruin that relationship.. but its hard to just try to stay friends. and i dont no what to do..
and ontop of that like i said i had seen other guyz after i broke up with ben and his name was brock. afte we had gone out for like 4 months he had kised another girl and started to like her. AND HE TOLD ME! (why would u tell yr gf anyway?)of course all my friends knew about it and told me to break up with him.. so i did.. i mean he did like another girl.. and this girl.. was.. well my other best friend.. (taylor) so much for best friend.. now he tells me im the one for him cuz he cried wheen i broke up with him and he loves me so much... crap omg. and hes like ill change for you..
so when in my profiles i have single` liken someone.. brock thinks i like him.. but really i like ben.. what do i do about these to problems
i dont want brock to think i like him.. and i want ben to KNOW i like him (which he dosnt)
i no its alot.. but i need help.. thx,
-Becca
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It's sounds like you have the same problems as any other 13 year old girl. Don't obssess about boys so much, that will solve a big chunk of your problems.
Also, don't belive everything you hear. Take every rumor with a grain of salt. If you have a concer about someone, talk to them about it, don't ignore them, or let someone else do the talking for you. The key to any relationship is communication.
And if you like someone, the best way to approch it is to just tell them. Anyone would appreciate a comliment like that, even if they don't feel the same way. If he turns you down, at least you don't have to keep wondering. I think it is harder to keep your feelings bottled up.
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