Hey SuperG
Is it pathetic to be in love with someone who really can't return the feeling? Or as you say, should I not be making this guy my priority when I'm just an option...? You know who I'm talking about
love you much
~Steph
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? superGiRL21 answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 12:24 pm: I guess I'm going to try to give you a different spin on this one because there are 2 types of advice that people can give you. 1) They can tell you what you want to hear, 2) They can tell you what's realistically going to happen. To answer your first question "is it pathetic to be in love with someone who can't return the feeling?" NO! It definitely is not. It's called unrequited "like"-why do you think there are so many songs on the radio about that. People everywhere experience this feeling-i guess what i mean to say is that there are a lotta of people out there feeling like you. Now whether or not you make this guy a priority relies in your hands. Only you can put yourself in situation to become someone's option. So i guess the question is when do you get sick of being an option? Wellp i can tell you its not gonna be until your ready. So take your own sweet time-but when you move on, move on for good and shut the door on it. Because believe it or not, there is a guy out there for you who is waiting to make you his priority and i can honestly tell you-you deserve every last bit of his love, respect, and attention. Hope this helps.
xoxoxoxo
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