Question Posted Thursday December 23 2004, 3:39 am
This is a little embarrassing but when i go to have sex with my gf i can't seem to hold an erection my penis goes soft and i can't get it up
i don't get another erection im not sure what to do im worried my penis is not real big only 3.5 inches long could that be the problem what can i do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? sunshine1030 answered Friday December 24 2004, 1:14 pm: umm, since i'm not a guy, i can't give you the best advice on this topic, but i can try. if you're able to hold an erection when you guys are just fooling around, i.e. when she's giving you a hand job or blow job, then maybe it's because you're nervous to have sex with her. i've heard that sometimes when a guy is nervous to have sex for whatever reason he has a hard time keeping it up. also, if you've already fooled around a lot before you have sex, sometimes you have just overworked it and you just need a longer break. if none of this is the problem, try a lot of foreplay before you have sex, and make sure that you are as hard as you can be before you have sex, then you should be fine. i have no idea if size can have anything to do with it, but i doubt it. i know this isn't the best advice, but it's the most that i know. maybe try asking a friend about it-a friend that you trust, and see what they say. hope this helped, and good luck [ sunshine1030's advice column | Ask sunshine1030 A Question ]
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