Question Posted Saturday December 18 2004, 4:42 pm
Ok so Im 17 and ive never mad out with a guy. Im scared that when i do ill totally suck and it will be embarassing! so i basicly want to know if there is a way to not suck the first time you do it?
Advice-wise, just relax. There is no 'right' way to do anything - just relax into it and do what feels right. The worst thing you can do is try and do things 'text-book', as you'll just seem tense and like you aren't enjoying it (which you won't be, as you'll be concentrating so hard on doing it 'right'). Be confident in yourself and do what feels good for you and the guy will have a great time too. Good luck. [ hailebop's advice column | Ask hailebop A Question ]
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