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PLEASE HELP ME


Question Posted Saturday December 18 2004, 12:11 am

ok so this guy me and him supposdly hate eachother now. ive told everyone that i hate him and he means nothing to me but i cry everynight, and he has a new girlfriend and i have a new boyfriend but it hurts me so much and i dont know what to do. iknowits time for me to move on and leave him behind but i just cant do it. no matter what he says to me, i just wish you could help me somehow because he cheats on me, lies to me, says fuck you to me, hates me, but yet i still love him and i dont know what to do. Its so hard on me, everyone says just to move on and teh pain will go away but it never does it just gets worse but then if i start talking to him and he messes around wiht another girl it will hurt me even worse, ive tried to let him go, but i just cant :-( please help me

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loveless44 answered Saturday December 18 2004, 12:34 am:
ok well if you still like him dont tell people you hate him b/c that be part of the reason he "hates" you. if hes really as bad as he sounds he probally isnt a great boyfriend and he'll be the one getting hurt in the longrun.
however i think you have some choices:

-talk to him and find out what he thinks and if there might still be something there (but be careful and not too vonerable)

-totally ignor him and you wont have to talk to him

obliously youre not over him so find out what he thinks about you. what ever you choose be careful not to end up getting hurt again by the same person. This is just the beginning and you will have more realtionships which means more harsh breakups but yeah thats life. personally i think you should move on and i know youre trying and it hurts so im not going to tell you that it wont b/c thats a fucking lie...it will hurt and it will take time but just keep trying and remember you always have friends to be there for you in times of need like this <3

hope i helped!!!

>>megan<<

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