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well about what i said about me being controlling there is more to it.... the thing i that there was this girl named alicia who some how had got his cell phone number they worked together ..... well i guess that she had a crush on him for a very long time and since she got his number they started talking...dont get me wrong i know he wont cheat on me okay and i know that he did not cheat on me with her the thing that hurt me was...that they would talk on the phone for 4-5 hours at a time... I always asked him not to speak to her anymore because when they talked she would always dog me saying that she can do him better and that he does not need to be with me.... the thing is that she never even met me or knew me.... I was scared that if they continued to talk that something might happen... so i cried and begged him to stop and he said that she ment nothing to him and so said then why dont you quit talking to her if she means nothing... well this was a huge conflict in our relationship because i was scared that something was going to happen and he said that it wouldent..but what could they possibly be talking about for that long nothing important..the other thing is that she would call his phone while we are together and i would answer it and she would tell me i had not right to answer his phone and that i dont have a right to talk to her because she was calling him ..well the way that i see it is that we do have a great relationship one that we can answer echothers phone without a problem so i had a right to!! anyways what would you think or do in this situation would you believe him (which i do i am just sensing things ) or would u think that something more then just friendship was there this was a while ago probally abot a year ago it is just on my chest
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i would believe him and i know you trust him.. its her you dont trust.. and tell him that. Just sit down with him and tell him how you feel and tell him that if he really cares for you he will stop talking to her.. at least for a little while. and if he wont then i think you should threaten to leave him.
i hope that helps!!
xoxoJessicaxoxo
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