i am all mixed up with my feelings rihgt now becuz my friend is alwayz getting mad at me for everything and then every time i tell my self that i am not gonna let her walk all over me any more and then i alwayz do. i mean i feel bad for her cuz her parents just got divorced and like yeah but i am having really hard time s with my fam. too and she doesnt care but really my qwestion is what should i do to make her stop walking all over me???
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? BBaLLBaBii911 answered Tuesday December 21 2004, 4:36 pm: Don't let her walk all over you when she trys to tell her to stop! If she tells you what to do right off the bat to do something then say no, i would suggest you explain to her that the only reason you do things is to be kind and nice, not because u have to!if she doesn't ask you nicely you don't have to do anything for her, also you could tell her that you did it to be kind, not because you had to. oyu can also tell her thats its not your fault that her parents are divorced, and tell her not to take it out on you, and you have your own family problems to deal with. wen you do this i would suggest doing it in person or on the phone, not in email because she might take it the wrong way. Wen you say this to her, try not to sound mean, and if she keeps interupting you, then just say LISTEN! Try to say it in a nice way so she doesn't get upset! hope i helped! good luck [ BBaLLBaBii911's advice column | Ask BBaLLBaBii911 A Question ]
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