O my Gosh. I’m in a big problem… so I have liked this guys (lets call him J) for about 4 weeks….but the other night at a party I was hanging out with him and my friend and I were talking…and J was telling this other guy who he liked…and nodded his head toward me and my friend…but that same night I got a crush on his guy…lets call him p…and so at first I didn’t know about J because I didn’t know if he liked me or my friend…and then I found out he liked my friend, and she likes him too…but I still like J…and I like p too…what should I do? And Christmas break is in 3 days, what should I do over the break to keep in touch with P-the single guy? I don’t even know his screen name. I need to get it from a friend . I want to hang out with him over break(but i dont knwo how to like ask him to so ocmethign with a group of frineds)?. I want to hang out with J too. But he is going b taken soon…when he and my friend start going out*(you can tell its going to happen)**?? thanx
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? xluvinux answered Monday December 13 2004, 10:39 pm: well since you think j is already going to be taken, work towards getting to know p. if you feel shy talking to him by yourself, bring a friend and ask for his s/n and number. Ask him about his hobbies and stuff and tell him about your own. Once you get his number and s/n you can talk to him a lot more (like over christmas break). Maybe on the phone or something you could use 3 way and ask if he wants to hang out with a group. if you don't have 3 way you could ask before break. once he gets to know you, he'll see your true personality. You can go from there. If things don't work out with j and your friend, you could go for him. but for now you should aim for getting to know p better. good luck!! =)
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