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ok so im really confused about my "USE TO BE" friend lk ok freshman year thats when i met her n it was a great year me n her n my other friends n we'd do stuff togetha n same during the summer until this year started sophmore year ok so we'd have lunch togetha n talk lk wat did we do the day before or during the weekend so everytime i said what i did it seem lk she was always makeing up wat she did jus to be better and it really pissed me off lk she started getting worst and every time it was lunch we'd meet at the bathrooms n she'd always look at wat i was wearing?!?! jus constantly staring at me did she think i didnt notice well that pissed me off as well i duno if its me or its her that she just wants to be so cool but another thing that really is pissing me off is the subject "FRIENDS" what i mean is it was like everytime i talked about my other friends she'd interupt me and tell me something about supposly her friends because she doesnt have any since she moved to my school her freshman year n its only her second year here well still what im trying to get to is.....that i jus keep thinking she is makeing up all this stuff rite? bout her friends *ahem* or jus lk anything if i tell her i went to this party on halloweeen n she'd go oh yea it was crzy i went with all my friends and didnt get home till 4am i was like? ok i didnt say nething cz i knew it was a lie cz on my bday we spent the night at a hotel n her parents didnt let her n told her she had to b home by 11:30 cz shes not aloud out ...so i duno if this makes sence but i duno wat to do cz now we dont eat lunch we dont talk at all and every time i see her i go hey n she jus keeps walking and ignores me i dont give but it bugs me how shes being sucha *****
thanks, pissed girl
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dear pissed girl,
well that is very maddening. i can see why your angry, i would be too. why is she looking at you to see what your wearing? it seems to me like this chick has some serious issues when it comes to self-confidence and is trying to be cool and fit in. let her know that she shouldnt have to "fit in" with you, that your her friend and you arnt going to judge her. of course, that is if you really feel that way and want to save this friendship. if she ignores you, ask her why shes doign it. if she does it to look "cool" than little miss i-want-to-be-cool-and-popular is so not worth your time and energy. its her vote if she wants to make up stories about having some fab social life. i dont know why shes doing it but if its to try to impress you, its def not working. have a talk with her about it. if she denies it and tries to start a fight over it, dont waste your energy on this friendship. if shes smart and dosesnt want to lose a good friend she'll come back.. if not, its her loss. dont make it your problem. shes the one who needs to get her priorities straight.
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