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why do guys make u feel like crap?
ok so im going out with this guy. and hes nice and we're close. but some nights, like tonight we really get onto each other. it just seems like everything that is said makes the other feel guilty about something or another. and im one of those ppl who cant sleep if im in a fight and so i try to work it out with him before he has to go...but it seems like when its not perfect, he watns nothing to do with me until everything's fine. i dunno what to do! tara help me!
*wondering whats wrong*
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haha good question.. why DO guys make us feel like crap? idk, sometimes i wonder the same thing myself. but thats not true of all guys. some guys dont make me feel like crap, some guys are pretty cool and are my good friends.. sometimes more. it sounds to me like you havnt found yourself one of these guys yet. your guy cant seem to stand the fact that when you fight everything goes wrong, so he walks away. thats a no-no. when he walks away, the problem goes unsolved, and that creates an ever bigger problem in the long run, causign you to have more unsolved fights.. etc etc.. you see how dysfunctional that can be?! what causes your fights? if it seems to be the same thing over and over, then get to the root of the problem by having a calm discussion. if you two cant do that, then dont give up all hope, but you are both going to have to work really hard to keep the rleationship balanced and healthy. if you are willing to do that, then congratulations to you two! if not, you may want to rethink this relationship. the best way is to talk it out, but even if you cant do that, its time to say goodbye, there are plenty of other guys out there who can make you feel like the Queen of England rather than just a maid cleaning in the Queens castle.. if you catch my drift. good luck!
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