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Alright well, here it goes. (I hope this doesn't sound like I'm complaining or anything, but it's how I feel and some of the things he does, just makes me feel like shit.)
On weeknights my boyfriend always drives over. He'll come around 9 and stay for like ever. It's a time where we can just be together and hang out. It's great.. We were on the phone that day, and he was going with his brother and friend, but he'd be back and it wouldn't be too late. He told me just to wait up for him cause he'd be up. Well I waited.. and waited.. I finally went to bed at 1:30 A.M. No call from him at all.. The next morning he calls and tells me he got home around 9:30 and went straight to bed. Made me feel great no phone calls, no nothing. I tell him how it makes me feel.. Feels like he just forgets all about me. Am I over-reacting.. Sometimes I feel like I should just break up with him and he'd realize how much it hurts me. But then I'm scared he won't come back. We've been going out for a long time, and we both love each other. I know that but it just hurts. Other times he'll tell me he'll call, I'll wait around and no call. Or he'll come up and he won't.. Stuff like that just bothers me because I wouldn't do that to him.. I guess maybe that's cause I know how it feels.
He knows how I feel about it because I tell him, I just don't know if he listens sometimes. Today on the phone I completely lost it with him, I was screaming and crying and everything. Then he brought up about when I went on vaca with my family (and i told him I'd call him everyday, which I was only gone for 3 days.) I tell him over and over the first night we got there my cousin wouldn't let me use her cell cause she was expecting a phone call, the next night I called from a payphone but no answer, then I called him about 8 times the next day and he wasn't home but I talked to family members...
I just completely lost it with him and I hate that, I love him w/all my heart it's just so hard sometimes.. but we got off the phone and we weren't fighting he told me he'd call me later but i've heard that before..
please help me talk to me or something , i'm losing it i hate feeling like this i just wish things with us could go back to normal..
thank you ..
*lost and sad*
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Alright, well if he tells you he got home at 9:30 and then went to bed, he probably did. If you know he loves you than you shouldn't have any doubt in your mind about it. If you have trust issues, maybe you two need to work them out. One missed phone call isn't the end of the world. I get mad when my boyfriend does it but I at least believe him when he said he was busy or tired or something. Have a little faith in your man and good luck.
Becca
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