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THE PHONE CALL.


Question Posted Wednesday December 1 2004, 8:16 am


HI Wisewoman,

I did talk to him. I called him up last night around 6:45 or so.. and we talked. The first 10 minutes we were catching up on old times.. just seeing how eachother is and whats new.. Mind you that was not the reason I wanted to talk to him. So I jumped right into the questions because he wasnt going to asking me anything etc. So I asked him when my friend messaged you to write to me etc. That is the only reason u wrote back to me. and he said noo he said I was more worried so I replied to you. I said okay. and I said I Understand that you have family issues, but can't you at least tell me instead of me thinking something bad happened to you.. He said you are right. I made a mistake and I'm Sorry. I even said that his friends are not really replying properly to me regarding you so I was worried even more. I said I wanted to come down but I couldnt get in touch with him. I said what do you want to do now? he said Ive been thinking about this for a while now.. and I sill don't know. I said how about this. You take your time and think about it then let me know and well discuss it.. and then I said I have to go do some stuff. I'll talk to you tomarrow or something. Hes like yah call me tomarrow. I said alright and then I hung up the phone. By the looks of it when I was telling him stuff like being straight to the point and saying how I felt.. he didnt sound like he was taking it too serious. He was giggling most of the time.. and that really got me frustrated.. Now I am more pissed than upset. Just after one phonecall. What now. should I call again and talk somemore? or wait for him to respond to me..


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WiseWoman answered Thursday December 2 2004, 12:41 am:
You've made the first move by calling him. You laid all your cards on the table by telling him how you feel. He didn't seem to respond in theway you wanted, nor did he tell you how he felt about you.
The ball is now in his court. He has the facts, he knows your feelings. Stop running after him. Don't call him to talk somemore. If he really wants to talk, and if he really cares, HE will call you.
Simply... wait for him to call you.

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