i have this ex that i reallly still like and while we were goin together we always argued. and we broke up for some crazy reason bc i had him really upset and he still loves me i kno he does but he had my friend over his house. he said he didnt do anything but in some way i think he did or was going to. i trust both of them and they went behind my back. now he doesnt talk to me as much as he used to and i kept tryin to explain to him i wanted to be back with him but he kept makin up excuses for why he didnt want to be with me, one reason was he had track season and he blames it on me not trusting him and he has to worry about track season and other reasons. i really wanna be back with him and i wanna make things work i jus dont kno wat to do. wat should i do?
Courtney answered Sunday November 28 2004, 6:02 pm: I know that you really like this guy . You're being too considerate and he's being a total ass to you. You care for him, but it doesn't mean that you have to indure his ridiculous insults . You don't want anyone who does things like that to you . You seem very considerate and thoughtful . Be thoughful towards this advice . The advice is to , get over him . He doesn't know your worth . If he makes up false excuses who cares . I mean you're a teenager, like I am, and we don't stay stuck on guys too long . So now that you've got this advice, what're you going to do . It's up to you . Wait and be the door mat , or move on . I'm sorry if I offended you, but it really sounds like this guy doesn't deserve you .Have a nice day . Sorry if answer is long . [ Courtney's advice column | Ask Courtney A Question ]
LocaBabii answered Sunday November 28 2004, 5:36 pm: If he acts like you say he does then i dont think he deserves you but since you sound crazy about him, and i know how that feels,ill help you out. Next time you talk to him make sure he doesnt have an excise to go somewhere else to get away from you and he has to be alone. Let him know that what he did with you friend was stupid and hes being really immature making up a bunch of excuses but also let him know you still love him and want him back. finaly casually say "so..you wana give this another shot?"
good luck
xo.<3 melanie [ LocaBabii's advice column | Ask LocaBabii A Question ]
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