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Expanding on the question about dating a younger girl and he
I have already given her my phone number (before I asked for advice and noticed her cuts), so what should I do if she calls wanting to get together and she's just too young. What are your thoughts on me expanding my friendship with her? Bringing it a little past casual, I still adore talking to her. Should I just not be her friend in fear that she may want something more (It seems clear that she likes me too) or should I wait and see if that happens and tell her nothing can happen when the time comes?
Also, the cuts. They are covered, she was wearing long sleeves. It's just I noticed them when she extended her arm. I'm still not sure about that. I mean, I only really see her at the store, I don't want to ask such a question in her workplace with customers waiting, but I am a little worried.
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
Do you think you could be friends with her without really wanting more? It sounds like you have a huge crush on her, so really think about that before you try being friends.
There is nothing wrong with talking to her and saying, "I gave you my phone number because I thought we could go out some time. But before we go out-- how old are you?" If she says she is under 18, it's no big deal to just say "Oh, I see. I'm twenty, so it wouldn't be cool for us to date. But, you're a great girl, and I think we could be good friends."
If you're concerned about the cuts on her arm, just tell her you're concerned, and make sure she's OK. Yes, it is very private information, and it could be awkward. She might get embarassed and pull away. But, if she is in real trouble, helping her seems more important than trying to avoid an uncomfortable conversation. Of course, that all depends on whether or not she ever calls you.
I'm wondering if there are any other girls you have met that you are interested in. Do you know any girls your own age that you could ask out? And how about friends? Do you have friends your own age?
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